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   Finally, I wised up and asked a mutual friend about his previous relationships, and said mutual friend confirmed my fears- that my ex was a serial clinger-and batshit crazy.  The mutual friend used the words “obsessive-possessive” and went on to describe my ex as a great friend, but terrible at relationships.  

  Turns out, my ex has major abandonment issues stemming from his adoption and desperately needs to seek counseling.  I didn't think twice about breaking up with him, and felt zero guilt for doing it.  Why?  Because his abandonment issues were not my problem.  I refuse projects I‘m not getting paid for, and you should too. Hopefully my ex will seek counseling and have a functional relationship someday, but no one should have to work on him, or anyone like him, unless they're a paid counselor.  

  I've known people who have stayed in relationships very similar to my experience to try to fix the other person.  In the end(and relationships like that ALWAYS end), they're emotionally drained and made absolutely no impact on the other person.  
 
   Why would anyone in stay in a situation like that?  Because they don’t realize there’s someone better out there, someone more suitable, someone sane, stable, more interesting, someone more compatible?

   Don‘t settle, and DO NOT put work into someone you just started dating-a new relationship should be easy, not draining or stressful.  Don’t delve into a human project unless you’re a psychiatrist and getting paid heavily for it.