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Yeah, I am listening. And yeah, I’m a cynic, not gonna lie. I like to consider myself a reasonably rational individual capable of strong objective analysis. I’ve read EVERYTHING there is to read about the modern dating market. That means going from Feministing to pandagon to Roissy to obsidian to Inmalafide to the more moderate places like this. I even went onto the fringes and delved in Devlin essays and HBD.
My conclusion? All have their points(though to varying extents). I’ve tried to draw on all of these. In the process, i have concluded that, despite the cynicism inherent in his writing, Roissy makes cogent, valid points more often than not. I found myself digging into my own personal past(relatively limited as it was) and finding that, for many of the “maxims” and conclusions he made I could find an experience of my own justifying it. His experience and the advice that stems from it, cynical as it is, is CORRECT in the MAJORITY of cases one deals with in the average American sexual marketplace. The longer I’ve read and the more I’ve learned, the clearer this has become.
Is he a misogynistic cynic and kind of a prick in some ways? Well, yeah, I can’t really deny this. That doesn’t invalidate his life experience. Hell, he even acknowledges openly the “dark side” of his cynicism, and alludes to the point so many girls have made here about him(“if you’re too cynical you might hurt truly good girls”). I mean, he was honest enough to admit that. I doubt that many of his other posts are any less realistic(and I have read nearly all of them). He’s clearly not trying to fool anyone into thinking that his lifestyle is infallible and flawless. He just makes the argument convincingly that the alternative(which I lived for most of my life) is worse.
So, to conclude, I agree that his points are highly cynical in that they are often cold, dark, calculating and sometimes shocking and mean. In other words, they’re EXACTLY like the world we now live in. I’ll never be as cynical as he is(too much beta has been bred into me already) so you don’t have to worry about that. Still, I’d rather be aware and understanding of this unfortunate but realistic darkness than live a delusional and blissfully ignorant life as a chump. I’ve been that guy already, and I’d rather be castrated and celibate than do it again.
As for marriage, expatriation is a valid option. Overweight and entirely unattractive men with no game go to Southeast asia and find 8′s and 9′s to marry, so the average beta probably has a shot to(just don’t bring her back here). If that’s not your thing, consider a place like Sweden which has much fairer divorce laws, or even Latin America. A lot of expatriate betas do well in japan, Korea and Singapore to. You don’t neccessarily need to go to a third world country to find a better deal(though its obviously easier there). Even Europe(more progressively feminist than even the US) has some intriguingly fair options.