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Oh, believe me, I did. If the video is correct in saying that a cocaine high is like that, it’s good I don’t do coke. I’d have OD’ed several time over just to get that feeling back. I’ve never felt anything better than what I felt then; I felt like he and I were invulnerable together.
Maybe it’s what you have said in the past, low SMV people ( the dreaded 3′s etc.), are happier long term? Is it better to be below average? Or was it our mutual inexperience? I don’t get it…
I don’t know, but my suspicion is that my favorite pair of newlywed threes feels no different than I did.
A side note re the wife. She was as wide as she was tall on her wedding day. They are trying to conceive, and the OB/GYN told her she was too heavy. She had spent years trying to take off weight before she met her husband; she dropped 70 pounds in the past few months so great is her motivation to give him a child. When you’re in love, you can do anything.
A side note re the husband. He watched her come down the aisle as though she were Kate Upton and Megan Fox all rolled into one–and at their combined weight they’d have just been a snack for her. (He looks like a shorter, uglier Lenin, BTW.)
51HanSolo? February 15, 2013 at 6:53 pm Just what we need…more shorter uglier Lenins!!!!! LMAO ROFL Thanks for giving me a good laugh.
52OTC February 15, 2013 at 7:17 pm I’ll have to watch the video. I don’t ever recall feeling invulnerable or high. Just be something I don’t have.
53PokerCat? February 15, 2013 at 7:32 pm I’ve been married for nine years now (both of us are 39) with a three year old, and another due in about a month, we’re generally happy, but oftentimes rocky…I’ve just read MMSL once, and am going over it again slowly. Totally worth getting IMHO.
What does a successful, happy marriage look like? I don’t know if there is a generic template that everyone can aspire. I see marriage as a dance, and not every couple has the same rhythm, and yet lots dance to the end.
What are your secrets? We dream together, and more importantly, we set goals and achieve them together. We’re both goal oriented, and this seems to be the glue that holds us together. I don’t think I can leave her, not just because I love her, but because it is clear that our lives would be far worse without each other. And the kids would suffer too.
I personally think that our society focuses too solely on the sex and romance part of the marriage. Marriage is far more than that, it’s also a financial and legal contract, and should be the strongest friendship you have (I know, this is opposite to other comments in this thread, but it’s my opinion, so whatever…). You’re a team against the world.